Философията на Макс

Едва ли има курсисти и преподаватели в Pin Academy, които да не познават Макс. Той е едно от емблематичните лица, с които се познаваме поне от 7 години. Ето защо, когато ми сподели философията си за живота на английски, му поисках разрешение да я кача. И така: из размислите на едно пораснало вече дете.

Those believes are made for the individual alone. The only one you serve is yourself.
-Those rules arent hard ones, everybody can interpret them differently
-Every human is the God of his story and choose how they will end up
-Exception: Fortune and Unfortune is real, you can be in the wrong place at the wrong time or get sick by that get life long injury preventing you to do something or possibly death.
-They can either do it alone or have someone to help them achieve their goals
-They can write good or bad depending on their choices.
-On failure. Do not fall, learn by yourself and those around you. Stand up and continue carving your own path
-Success isn't beating someone or being better - it's your own happiness
-Everybody's starting point is different and for some may be harder but with work they can reach great heights
-Life has no meaning but with their choices they can find their meaning
-Some things will stay unexplained and that's ok
-Some things are with no reason or if they are we cannot find it or its not worth the effort to do so
-There always will be unbalance made by others but you need to build your own and if you want, help those around you to do so as well.
-Balance is hard. There is a long route to do so but when reached life is way easier
-You shall not be changed by others without thought. Consider their way, but only adopt what suits you. Nobody changes you unless you let them.
-Those who project hate or jealousy are misdirected, normally weaker. Do not hate them back. Help them or let them burn and learn. Choice is yours.
-In dark periods where life feels meaningless and motivation is gone — walk. The path may be dark, the past may pull you but walk. Because behind you there is nothing but suffering but at the end you may reach a beautiful place.
-Sometimes you walk too fast. Don't. Walk normally. Slowing down and allowing oneself to observe is better than going faster.
-Before leaving the past behind, think on it. You may have hurt someone, made mistakes. Don't dwell on them for too long though because the past cannot be changed, only the future can. Learn, Acknowledge them move forward without shame.
-Choose carefully who you let into your story. Ask honestly "do they help me or hurt me?" "Am I keeping them because they add something or because I fear being alone?" Better alone than in something toxic.
-If someone you love falls, try to lift them. Really try. But if time passes and the same mistakes repeat with no improvement despite their promises - you must leave. Some people cannot be saved.
"-no matter who is it promises with no action are just empty words." - Tosho
-You can share your weaknesses with those close to you, but choose carefully. If they use it against you — don't react. Leave. Betrayal is not tolerated. And how are you going to not react. If you accept the past it won't be a burden to you.
-On loss of loved one, do not fall, cherish the moments you've been together and be happy that they were in your life and choose you.
-On betrayal or abandoment, ask yourself: "Was I at fault or is it theirs?". Answer may be unpleasant or non-existent but accept the outcome either way and move forward.
-Work when there is work. Rest when you need to. Find your own balance between the two where neither is neglected.
-Confidence is necessary. But always question your choices and look for your flaws. Just never let that questioning become self hatred or paralysis.
-You will feel envy. That's normal. The question is whether you let it guide you or ignore it and keep walking your own path.
-With experience your thinking will change and so will mine. These are not definite rules as said earlier. Take what suits you, leave what doesn't. This is just a map, not a law.
-Happiness is when you feel you've built something worth having. When You hold no grudges and you genuinely feel good. But you can loose it. Be careful. Sometimes you will loose it and sometimes it won't be your fault but you need to continue and get it back.
-Always reflect on how far you've come compared to who you were. Progress may be small but it is still progress. The only one you are competing with is your past self not others.
-Fear, is what protects us from danger but it also may stuck us in one place. Think deeply of why you fear something and what it would cost you to do an action and see if it's worth it.
-Anger is quite the same. It breeds irrationality and makes you do mistakes, hurt those you love or just put you into bad spot. Do the same as the fear. Stop, think, react accordingly.
-Death is unavoidable, nobody is here forever as well as you. Do not fear it but do not persue it either. Just walk
-Solitude can be split. There is voluntary and involuntary. I support the voluntary one. It can build your character and make you think about questions you have never even thought of having.. the involuntary one is cruel though. Nobody shall be put into it but if they are, search the good out of it. Instead of staying lonely learn to be enough for self and do your own thing.
-Luck is a thing, some are given things others should work for them. That's why life is unfair, unbalanced even. The thing is to spot when luck has turned up and take the chance.
"Just because luck is random doesn't mean it effects everyone equally. When you're ready for it to happen you'll be the first one to benefit from it."-Tosho
-You may be skilled at something that doesn't fulfill you. Do it if you need money, but keep what you love as well - even as a hobby. Your skills in it will keep building. Whether it stays a hobby or becomes your path is your choice.